Well the day came and went way too fast. I did not get to spend it with Cayden and Carson which was very difficult. I was very sad to not be with my boys. :( We went to Grandma and Grandpa Moores in Clarion. Davis got lots and lots of attention. Everyone was amazed at how good he is. Never cries and just smiling all the time. Tom's cousin Maria got him giggling, it was really cute. The boys mostly hung out in the garage and played cards. We played apples to appled inside and I am proud to say that I won one match out of two!! :)
Friday Davis and I went shopping for some good deals, I got a couple good buys but for the most part it was just too difficult to get in and out of the aisles with a cart. Friday night we took Davis over to Grandpa Dean's and Andrea and Laura babysat Davis for us while we went to a couples shower. We decided that it would be easier for them to keep him all night so that way no one was driving in the middle of the night back home. We went and hung out with Worm and Ueltschy after the shower.
Saturday consisted of me sleeping half the day and hanging out in the basement the rest of the day as I was very very hung over. I dont want to drink for a very long time!!!!
Shelle and Jeff are doing pretty well from what I can tell via text messages. The funeral is today, I pray that everyone can stay strong and help support Jess as well as say their own goodbyes and feel like they got some closure.
My mom...didnt see her all weekend again...Larry takes up all her time like usual. I am starting to get so upset by the fact that she comes to see Davis like maybe once a week and only for a couple minutes. What happened to Grandparents actually being Grandparents and supporting and encouraing their children to be good parents themselves. I dont know maybe I am just being selfish but I just feel so sad that my children dont really get that kind of care that only a Grandparents can give. I shouldnt say that because Cayden and Carson have Paul and Deb who are wonderful with them. Maybe my mom will come around and realize she is pushing her family away for a man. I really hope so.
Yesterday Tom went to the store and got stuff to make a roast...it ended up being really good!! Yummy plus when I dont have to cook it always seems like it tastes better!! I got some movies at Blockbuster, actually TV series, I got Weeds which we love, but of course I got one that we had already seen. Then I got The Wire which was really dumb, we watched like 10 minutes and turned it off. So there goes $8 for nothing. Makes me mad!! I get Cayden and Carson back tonight...I am so happy I miss those boys soooooo much the weeks they are with their dad.
I need to get started with some work here, so long for now!!
Monday, December 1, 2008
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
Stress!!!
The last week was one of the worst weeks of my life. I am so tired of talking about it I dont even want to post it here because that means I will have to re-live it once again. But something Carson said that was pretty cute when we did not know what was wrong with Davis he looked at me and said...I just wish that this mystery was solved right now. We had a wrestling tournament for Carson in Humboldt and he got first place. The kids seemed to be pretty inexperienced so I am looking forward to watching a good match. He is pretty proud of his trophy.
Davis is doing great, he is getting bigger everyday. He weighs 14 pounds 6 ounces and wearing 6-9 months clothes. He is smiling all the time and loves to kick around under the star toy we have for him. He also loves the paper on the doctors tables. Cayden is playing the Cello this year and doing great in school. He is in TAG and loves being challenged. The boys will be with Chris for Thanksgiving so that makes me sad to not spend this day with them but we are not even doing Thanksgiving with my family. Mom is dating a guy I dont particularly care for. Creeps me out for some reason. Dad is dating the lady he had an affair with while he and mom were still married. Shelle and Jeff are in San Antonio. Tom and I and Davis are going to his Grandma's in Clarion. I did not feel like rushing there just to get back and spend time with mom and her boyfriend...its just too akward. She is going to make a little dinner for Ryan and Kyle and Larry is coming later. Dad will be with his girlfriend.
Sad, terrible, tragic news. Jeff's best friend Mike Stuzman died last night in a farm accident. He and his wife Jess just had a little girl, Sophie about a week before I had Davis. He was crushed under the blade of a combine. He and his father were repairing it and some how it fell and crushed him. Jeff is just a wreck and Shelle is in shock. I feel so terrible for everyone that loved him. I hung out with Mike and Jess a few times and they are just wonderful people. I cant imagine what Jess will do without him. Shelle said it best when she said that there are just some people who you know belong together and you can never see them with anyone else. They had one of those magical relationships. It is better to have love and lost than to never have loved at all.. Rest In Peace Mike!!!
Davis is doing great, he is getting bigger everyday. He weighs 14 pounds 6 ounces and wearing 6-9 months clothes. He is smiling all the time and loves to kick around under the star toy we have for him. He also loves the paper on the doctors tables. Cayden is playing the Cello this year and doing great in school. He is in TAG and loves being challenged. The boys will be with Chris for Thanksgiving so that makes me sad to not spend this day with them but we are not even doing Thanksgiving with my family. Mom is dating a guy I dont particularly care for. Creeps me out for some reason. Dad is dating the lady he had an affair with while he and mom were still married. Shelle and Jeff are in San Antonio. Tom and I and Davis are going to his Grandma's in Clarion. I did not feel like rushing there just to get back and spend time with mom and her boyfriend...its just too akward. She is going to make a little dinner for Ryan and Kyle and Larry is coming later. Dad will be with his girlfriend.
Sad, terrible, tragic news. Jeff's best friend Mike Stuzman died last night in a farm accident. He and his wife Jess just had a little girl, Sophie about a week before I had Davis. He was crushed under the blade of a combine. He and his father were repairing it and some how it fell and crushed him. Jeff is just a wreck and Shelle is in shock. I feel so terrible for everyone that loved him. I hung out with Mike and Jess a few times and they are just wonderful people. I cant imagine what Jess will do without him. Shelle said it best when she said that there are just some people who you know belong together and you can never see them with anyone else. They had one of those magical relationships. It is better to have love and lost than to never have loved at all.. Rest In Peace Mike!!!
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Precious moments
I decided to start this mainly for myself...I have a terrible memory. I have so many memorable moments that have happened with my boys over the years and sometimes I randomly remember things that I would like to have a record of because who knows if I will be able to recall that memory ever again. After having Davis I have once again been reminded of the many precious things that are experienced that I never want to forget.
I guess I will start with something funny Carson said the other day. I had taken him to Erin (Davis' babysitter) because he had gotten out of school early and I still had to work. This is the first time Carson has been there in over a year and first time he has been there when Davis was there. Erin had Davis in his carseat in the kitchen with her when she sent Carson down to the basement to watch a movie with the other kids. During that time she had Davis out to let him stretch and had him in the swing as well...she had just put him back in the carseat when Carson came back up from watching the movie. He went over to give Davis a kiss...looked at Erin and said..."Don't you think he has been in that carseat long enough." Awww....big brother looking out for his little brother.
We took Davis to the ER over the weekend..apparently he must have bumped his head on something without us knowing. I noticed while holding him that he had some swelling on the right side of his head. They did a CAT scan and it showed that it was a hemotoba which is a fancy name for a bruise. The weird thing is that it never was red or looked bruised...just swollen and soft to the touch. That was a four hour trip but well worth it to make sure everything was ok. Grandpa Dean picked Davis up from daycare for the first time yesterday...he offered to pick him up everyday so he can see him. I think that he is beginning to get a little stir crazy after retiring a couple months ago.
Tom is going to be going to the Iowa/Minnesota game this weekend with Jarret. They will be meeting Nate and his girlfriend Melissa and staying at Nate's mom's apartment. He is pretty excited about this...not sure what me and the boys will be doing. Andrea offered to have us come down and do some Christmas shopping but I think Carson might wrestle in the Humboldt wrestling tournament this weekend.
Cayden and Carson spent the first week with their dad at their new house last week and that seemed to go well. They started to get their rooms put together and Grandma Deb came over to make them curtains for their rooms.
We will busy this week with wrestling and church...and if Carson has a good week at school I told him he could have a friend stay the night sometime this weekend.
Back to work...hopefully I will be good about updating this!!
I guess I will start with something funny Carson said the other day. I had taken him to Erin (Davis' babysitter) because he had gotten out of school early and I still had to work. This is the first time Carson has been there in over a year and first time he has been there when Davis was there. Erin had Davis in his carseat in the kitchen with her when she sent Carson down to the basement to watch a movie with the other kids. During that time she had Davis out to let him stretch and had him in the swing as well...she had just put him back in the carseat when Carson came back up from watching the movie. He went over to give Davis a kiss...looked at Erin and said..."Don't you think he has been in that carseat long enough." Awww....big brother looking out for his little brother.
We took Davis to the ER over the weekend..apparently he must have bumped his head on something without us knowing. I noticed while holding him that he had some swelling on the right side of his head. They did a CAT scan and it showed that it was a hemotoba which is a fancy name for a bruise. The weird thing is that it never was red or looked bruised...just swollen and soft to the touch. That was a four hour trip but well worth it to make sure everything was ok. Grandpa Dean picked Davis up from daycare for the first time yesterday...he offered to pick him up everyday so he can see him. I think that he is beginning to get a little stir crazy after retiring a couple months ago.
Tom is going to be going to the Iowa/Minnesota game this weekend with Jarret. They will be meeting Nate and his girlfriend Melissa and staying at Nate's mom's apartment. He is pretty excited about this...not sure what me and the boys will be doing. Andrea offered to have us come down and do some Christmas shopping but I think Carson might wrestle in the Humboldt wrestling tournament this weekend.
Cayden and Carson spent the first week with their dad at their new house last week and that seemed to go well. They started to get their rooms put together and Grandma Deb came over to make them curtains for their rooms.
We will busy this week with wrestling and church...and if Carson has a good week at school I told him he could have a friend stay the night sometime this weekend.
Back to work...hopefully I will be good about updating this!!
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